Sleeping mouse on the moon

Receive a birthday card for your baby gone-too-soon

About Still Loved

Still Loved is a nonprofit based out of Holly Springs, NC. We celebrate the birthdays of babies gone too soon by sending bereaved parents cards in the mail on every birthday.

Today's Birthdays

Star Balloon
Cloud and stars balloon

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the birthday card service offered and who is eligible to receive it?

We offer a free service where we mail bereaved parents cards on their child’s birthday. This is for parents who have lost an infant under one year old or have delivered a stillborn baby.

Why do we send birthday cards?

Many bereaved parents feel alone and unsupported on the anniversary of their child's birth or death, especially if they have lost their baby in utero, but even neonatal loss as well. Our service aims to alleviate this by sending a card on their child's birthday, reminding them they are not alone.

How do I sign up?

Signing up is easy! Fill out the form on our website, and we will take care of the rest. Please provide accurate information to ensure you receive your card on time.

Is there a cost for the service?

Our service is completely free of charge. We rely on the generosity of donors to keep this service running and bring hope to bereaved parents.

How can I update my address or opt-out of the service?

Contact us at to update your address or opt-out of the service. We want to ensure you receive your card every year.

I did not receive my birthday card, what should I do?

We apologize if you did not receive your birthday card for your child. We understand the importance of receiving a card on your child's special day, and we want to ensure you get it. Please reach out to us at SBSLFoundation@gmail.comand we'll be happy to check on the status of your card. Kindly note that if you filled out the form within a week or two of your baby's birthday, it might be why you have yet to receive the card; in this case, you may have to wait until next year. We truly value your support, and we apologize for any inconvenience.

What is your mailing process?

Our goal is to make sure that the birthday cards reach you on time. We tend to send the cards out 1-2 weeks before your child's birthday if you are in the USA and a month in advance for international addresses. We use regular stamped envelopes for mailing, so we cannot provide tracking for these cards. But rest assured that we will do our best to get the card to you on time.

Can I sign up someone else to receive a birthday card?

We recommend sending the person our link so they can decide for themselves if they would like to sign up.

Is the service available outside of the US?

We currently accept addresses outside of the US, but we are testing this out. If it proves to be difficult, we may have to stop accepting international addresses.

I forgot if I signed up for a birthday card, what should I do?

Contact us at and we will check for you.

How else can we support you?

Autumn wrote a baby loss book! We don't make money from Still Loved, so if you want to support us, you can do so by purchasing her book -